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Should You Write Autobiographical Fiction?

Let’s start with a quiz: What is the difference between writing autobiographical fiction and writing about what you know?

Never thought about it? Then you should – it’s one of the biggest areas of confusion that exists for folks starting out in novel writing.

When you are learning to write a novel, it is one of the first things you hear: write what you know about. You’re also told (confusingly) to avoid writing autobiographical fiction.

Can both pieces of advice really be true? And if they are both true, how the heck are you meant to stick to what you know without writing your life story?

Oh, and while we’re dealing with the fundamental questions: What’s so bad about putting your life story down on paper, anyway?

That last one is simple to answer…

If your goal is to write your autobiography, go for it! But the fact that you’ve landed at a website all about writing fiction implies that your goal is different: that you want to tell made-up stories!

So it really boils down to being clear about what you want to acheieve: to tell the factual story of your time on this earth, or to tell the fictional story of a person who has never existed.

It also boils down to understanding that there’s a massive gray area in the middle: that factual autobiographies can be improved by using fictional techniques (such as plotting techniques), and that fiction can be improved by – you guessed it – writing about what you know.

But I’m getting ahead of myself. Let’s rewind and take it from the beginning…

Why Autobiographical Fiction Doesn’t Work

Pure autobiographical writing is a thinly-disguised version of your own life story.

Apart from changing names and locations and any other key facts, you do virtually nothing to distinguish the events of your novel from the events of your life.

And you know what? It rarely if ever works, no matter how fascinating you believe your life has been.

Your job as a novel writer is to shape new experiences, not to rewrite old ones.

Note the word “shape.” Real life doesn’t have any shape (very rarely, anyway)… and that is precisely the trouble with trying to pass it off as fiction.

A novel’s plot consists of a series of linked events. Each event is…

  • An effect of the event that came before it.
  • A cause of the event that comes next.

It is this linkage that keeps the reader turning the pages, eager to discover what happens next.

But real life doesn’t work like that. It is more random, more episodic…

“Event A” happens and then “Event B” happens. You drive into town to buy some groceries then get home to discover the boiler has flooded the basement. The two events have nothing to do with each other, which makes them hopeless for the purposes of good fiction.

There is an awful lot of dull stuff in between these events, too. And real life rarely provides satisfying endings, with the good rewarded, the bad punished, and all the loose ends neatly tied.

Oh, and have you noticed how real life is full of incredible coincidences?…

  • Like when you think of an old friend you haven’t seen for years and they phone you the very next day.
  • Or when you’re on vacation a thousand miles from home and you bump into the couple who live three doors down.

We know that things like that happen all the time in real life. But put one of these coincidences in your novel and the reader won’t believe a word of it.

Life really is stranger than fiction!

Degrees of Autobiographical Fiction

Another problem with writing autobiography disguised as fiction is that it is very difficult to be objective. Yes, the passing of time helps us to gain perspective on events. But do you think you could ever gain enough perspective when the protagonist is you and the protagonist’s story is your story?

If you are still drawn to writing autobiographical fiction, despite everything I have said, I have two pieces of advice…

  1. Reshape and rearrange the facts of your life as much as you can. Don’t see your novel as a fictionalized version of your life so much as a fictionalized version of what your life could have been, or should have been, or almost was. So play around with the chronology, introduce invented characters, make up some events. You will find this far more creatively fulfilling as it requires you to use your imagination.
  2. If you don’t want to distort the facts or rearrange them into more pleasing shapes, consider writing an actual autobiography. It can be a tough market to crack if you don’t happen to be famous, but if your life really has been as fascinating and as adventure-filled as you believe then a big market certainly exists.

If you do NOT want to write purely autobiographical fiction (good choice!) but nevertheless want to make full use of your experiences (another good choice!), here’s the solution…

The Right Way to “Write What You Know”

If you have ever heard the advice to “write what you know about,” you should listen to it. It is one of the keys to making your fiction truthful and alive.

The trouble is, many novel writing beginners take this advice and write pure autobiography. Taking the hard facts of your life and calling them a novel doesn’t work. What does work is to draw on the experiences of your life, but not in a literal way.

Below are three ways to “write what you know” without resorting to barely-concealed autobiographical fiction.

1. Use Your Specialized Knowledge

We all have specialized knowledge of something, often many things. Maybe for you it’s beekeeping or forensic science. Maybe it’s rock climbing or dentistry.

Whatever subject you are knowledgeable about, don’t be afraid to incorporate it into your novel. It is one of the best ways there is to write what you know about, because it will give your novel authority.

Oh, and never make the mistake of believing that your specialized knowledge, whatever it may be, is too dull for a novel.

Orchid growing might seem humdrum and ordinary to you if you have been doing it all your life, but it will be fascinating to those of us who know nothing about it.

2. Use Fragments From Your Experiences

What isn’t written from experience is worthless. You must never write about what you don’t know. Not to use the unique material which you have in your possession is a kind of suicide.

John Braine

Hands up anyone who has never had a romantic relationship turn sour. Not many, I bet. It is a common experience: falling in love and then losing that love.

Now, as I have already explained, it is not a good idea to write a novel about that relationship and simply change the names.

Writing purely autobiographical fiction is not a good idea artistically, and it isn’t a good idea morally – because people’s real feelings are on the line. (Even if you change the names, they will still know who they are.)

So, using this failed romance, how do you draw on your experiences without writing an autobiography?

The doomed relationship will be composed of countless fragments, and it is perfectly acceptable to use these in your fiction…

  • The way you got ill from eating bad shellfish on your very first date.
  • How you liked to prop yourself up in bed and watch your lover sleeping.
  • The fun fights you used to have over the TV zapper, and how you always lost.
  • The way, towards the end, you couldn’t stand being in the same house as your other half – then the way you missed their annoying habits when they were gone.

Think of these fragments like tiny tiles in a huge mosaic, with the mosaic being your novel.

The way you construct the mosaic is by using some tiles created in your imagination and some tiles borrowed from a countless number of real-life experiences.

Anyone who knows you might be able to recognize a fragment here and there, but the fictional stories you create will still be exactly that: fictional.

3. Use the Emotional Truths Behind Your Experiences

Hemingway: There is nothing to writing. All you do is sit down at a typewriter and bleed.

Back to that failed romantic relationship. We know that writing about the events in a literal way won’t work, but that borrowing tiny fragments from the story here and there and working them into your fiction is okay.

What is also okay – indeed, what is essential – is this…

Making use of the emotions that the real-life story caused you to feel.

We all know what it feels like when a relationship ends. The emotion experienced is usually one of pain – though it can sometimes be relief (!)

The precise way in which we experience this emotion will be different for all of us, meaning that if your novel is to truly show the reader what the world looks like through your eyes, you need to get down on paper precisely how a relationship ending feels to you.

The relationship you create in your novel will not constitute autobiographical fiction (barring the odd borrowed fragment here and there), but the emotions underpinning the imagined events will be very real.

Another way to make use of your real-life emotional experiences is to use them to help you imagine how experiences you have never had might feel.

For example…

  • I don’t know what it feels like to lose a child.
  • I can get close to how it might feel using my imagination.
  • But to help me get closer to how such a terrible event must actually feel, I can draw on similar (if lesser) experiences, like the death of a beloved pet or a close friend.

I might not know what X feels like. But I do know what Y feels like. And remembering Y will help me to better imagine X.

Writing autobiographical fiction might be tempting at first glance, but you are going to have the devil’s own job trying to craft a story out of events which don’t want to follow the principles of storytelling.

Much better merely to borrow from your life – a fragment of an experience here, an emotional truth there. That way, you can write what you know about while keeping the story you tell essentially fictional.

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